Cross-dressing, Trapping

hey, looking for some advice so i figured id start a thread in here... im 19, ive always really wanted to try crossdressing, but ive never really acted on it until recently. i only do it in private and nobody knows i do it. anyway, ive been wanting to get a haircut, just to make everything look nice, but i dont know exactly what i want and i cant find any pictures that id be happy bringing in as an example. i want to get something thats androgynous/feminine without actually looking like a girls' haircut, something that will look good whether im wearing men's or women's clothes and won't draw a lot of questions in either. preferably something w/ bangs of some sort, since my forehead is probably my most masculine facial feature. also, my hair's sort of wavy, and not very long, so im looking for short cuts mostly. pictures or advice or whatever would be GREATLY appreciated!!!! picture unrelated.